The Heartful Muslimah · Free Live Masterclass
Radical Acceptance: What It Is & When to Set Boundaries
It does not mean accepting bad behaviour. It means “Let him, and let me.”
Sunday, October 25 · 1pm ET / 5pm UK / 9pm Dubai · Live on Zoom
Free to join. Replays are for Heartful Sorority members. xx
If “radical acceptance” made you pause… you are right to ask
Maybe you heard those two words and thought: So I just put up with everything?
No. Not even close. And it makes sense that you wondered.
You have asked him nicely. You have reminded him. You have explained it again — and again. You are tired. You are not a bad wife for trying so hard. You wanted your home to feel calm and safe.
In this masterclass we will look at what radical acceptance really means, why the old way has not been working, and what to do instead.
What It Is & What It Is Not:
Radical acceptance is not:
- Accepting mistreatment or abuse of any kind
- Staying quiet when something hurts you
- Pretending everything is fine
- Waiting for him to change
Radical acceptance is:
- Seeing who your husband is today — clearly
- Not trying to change who he is
- Telling him once, then letting him choose
- Setting a boundary on what you will do
“Let him, and let me.”
Boundaries do not need him to change. A boundary is simply telling him what you will do.
In this session, you'll learn:
- What radical acceptance really means — and what it never means
- Why we try to “help” or “teach” our husbands — and why it weakens attraction in a marriage
- How to tell him once — and then truly let him choose
- Everyday examples: his messy room, his phone, his TV time and more (what to say, what to do, and what to leave alone)
- How to present a problem and let him find his own solution (one example for couples with kids, one for couples without)
- When to set a boundary — and how to say what you will do
- Can you live with who he is today? How to see him as he really is — without hoping he will change
The Less You Tell Him, the More He Will Do
The more you let him be himself in the house — on his phone, watching TV — without getting angry, the less he will want to escape into it.
When you stop acting like his mother, he can see you as his wife again. That is where attraction grows back.
You will learn how to stay in your feminine, bring him the problem, and let him come up with the solution.
A Clear Word on Safety
Radical acceptance protects you. It means knowing that who he is today is who he will likely be in 20 years — and asking, honestly, can I live with this?
It never means tolerating mistreatment or abuse of any kind. Your safety and dignity come first. If you are in danger, please contact your local emergency services or a trusted person right away.
Your Host: Coach Maariya Khan
Marriage coach and founder of The Heartful Muslimah. Maariya helps women prevent divorce — including in marriages where divorce is already on the table. She completed her ‘Alimah studies, then postgraduate Hanafi fiqh specializing in marriage and relationships, and is now completing a Bachelor’s in Islamic Sciences.
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Sunday, October 25th · 5:00 PM UK · 1:00 PM ET · 9:00 PM Dubai
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